Here I am a 38 year old woman...opppps well for a few days 38:) I have truly lived with incubus songs in my head and now Incubus has been the soundtrack to my relationship. I am engaged to man named Bahadir. He and I have been together for almost 2 years. I know you are saying "Yeah yeah great for you" But our life is different. He lives in Turkey and I live in the states. We met when i was on vacation. I saw him and he saw me...Instant our connection. He knew no english..but that did not…