Haha...I know what you mean! I practically had to drag one of my friends to go see them in concert with me in 2009. They're amazing live!....So, how long have you been "in" with Incubus? lol... I picked up on them after Make Yourself, and I've been listening to them ever since. Simply put, their music appeals to me no matter what mood I'm in at a given moment. As B Boyd mentioned in his blog post, I have come to associate certain significant events in my life with particular songs that seemed to coincide with the lyrics and rhythm at the time...not to mention there's nothing like listening to Incubus while/after studying for school.
...And of course, it goes without saying that Mike Einziger is probably THE most creative, talented guitarist of our time...He has his own sound! I've been playing guitar for several years now, and simply hearing his work influences/inspires me to keep pursuing it and see where it goes.
Well, I could go on forever talking about Incubus...Since you're my first "friend" (of hopefully many more incubus fans to come!), I just thought I'd share with you my story. I think that's was IncubusHQ is for anyways?? Haha... I won't take offense if you don't respond.