This man's music gave me the strength to make steps towards accepting my parents divorce like nothing has in the last 3 years.  Strange thing is I have been a fan forever but not listened to him for those three years and it was hell. And here I am seeing things with a heightened sense of acceptance.
I don't think that anyone with a deep love of family should be without Incubus because as the lyrics state  "When you were down I always picked you up" So until I've dealt with my issues I'll listen to these guys with utmost admiration and respect for the power they have over me.